unhinged and Ethereal

welcome to Unhinged and Ethereal.

so I have my little corners of the internet already right? I feel like I’m starting so many new things at once but still the double pisces in me needs depth and a place to house it all.

not another curated feed, not another place to convince you I have things figured out because I don’t lol and honestly even this, I’m asking myself “nia wtaf girl, chiilllllllll” but one thing about me is, I HAVE NO FUCKING CHILL, I’m a fucking creative so even with all the outlets my mind still wants to fucking create and honestly I love that for me. also I’m a leftie so my brain is all creativity.

but anyways here we are, now let me just say this isn’t my first blog, like I said I’m a creative I’ve had allllll the blogs lmfao not only that I’m a millennial I grew up on this shit. There’s so much nostalgia here, I’m getting chills just writing this, preteen/ teen nia is freaking the fuck out right now.

anyways this corner of the internet is a place to write. think. wander. share. BE A LITTLE FUCKING WEIRD.

so hi.

welcome to Unhinged & Ethereal.

the name is truly telling.

I’ve always been so drawn to the things that exist somewhere in the in-between.

the beautiful and the messy.

the sacred and ridiculous.

the deeply meaningful and the unnecessary.

as a child the weird women always enticed me. the one who lights a candle before journaling and then spends twenty mins laughing and the dumbest thing (me).

the woman who wants to raise good humans, have a great marriage, feel so fucking beautiful in her body, make money doing something she truly loves, read more books, travel, create, rest, fall in love with life over and over and over again but still she has no fucking idea what she’s doing.

that woman feels pretty familiar to me.

and I have a feeling (psychic intuition) she feels familiar to you too.

this space is about the good weird life.

the little rituals. the big questions. motherhood and womanhood. love and relationships. beauty and style. spirituality and creativity. home and food. desire and identity. the things were currently obsessed with. the things were trying to figure the fuck out. the things that make days feel like ordinary.

there will be tarot cards.

good fits.

THERE MAY BE SOME EXISTENTIAL CRISES.

but there will be stories, recommendations, rabbit holes, pretty things, honest thoughts and hopefully a few moments where you think.

wait. I want to live like that.

not because I have some extraordinary life lol, because ive become so convinced that an extraordinary life is most made up of ordinary moments we decide to pay attention to.

a coffee in the morning.

music playing while you’re making dinner.

getting dressed just because you feel like it.

a really good conversation.

your favorite person reaching for your hand.

a book that changes something in you.

your kids laughing in the next room..

a spontaneous plan

a quiet morning.

a crazy ass joke.

a moment where you look around at the life you’ve built and realize

oh. This is it.

maybe we don’t need to wait for the big thing.

maybe this is the good part.

so, that’s what I’m exploring here.

how to make a life that feels beautiful without needing it to be perfect.

how to grow without constantly feeling like we need to fix ourselves.

how to want more while still being wildly grateful for what we already have.

how to stay curious.

how to stay soft.

how to stay a little bit feral.

how to make room for all the versions of ourselves we’re still becoming.

and how, somewhere along the way, to have a really fucking good time doing it.

I’m so glad you’re here.

Welcome to the weird little world of Unhinged & Ethereal.

Stay awhile. ☾